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From the Bar
This is a weekend that only happens once.
Not the World Cup — though yes, that too. I mean the specific collision of things landing on Kansas City at the same time this Friday through Sunday. The Juneteenth Heritage Festival is back in 18th & Vine, where it belongs, in its 15th year, with Common on the main stage Saturday night. The World Cup's second weekend at the Fan Fest, themed Sports Town USA, with the King and Queen of the Netherlands in town to watch Curaçao take on Ecuador at Arrowhead on Saturday. Father's Day on Sunday, which might mean a choice between a backyard and a barstool, and anyone who knows you probably knows which you'll pick.
I've been thinking about what it means that Juneteenth and the World Cup are running side by side this year. June 19th is a federal holiday — a day that marks the end of something that should have ended much earlier, and didn't. And this year it falls inside a month where Kansas City is, for the first time in most of our lives, a destination. People are flying in from the Netherlands. From Ecuador. From Algeria. They're walking through the Crossroads, eating Arthur Bryant's for the first time, getting on the streetcar, hearing jazz leak out of a bar on 18th Street and stopping to listen.
And that's the week Juneteenth lands on.
Go to 18th & Vine this weekend. Go before the Fan Fest. Go after. Take the streetcar down and walk it. Common plays Saturday night and that alone is worth the trip, but the festival is bigger than any single act — community workshops, food, history, local artists, the full program running both days.
Then go be a dad, or go find one, or go do what dads who choose the barstool always do — order something worth ordering and don't explain yourself. Happy Father’s Day.
I’ll see you at the bar ☾
—Jay, SecretKC editor
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⚽ World Cup Weekend, Week 2
FIFA Fan Festival™ · Thu–Sun / Hours vary
This weekend KC leans into a city where sports aren't a season, they're a religion. Main stage headliners: Flo Rida on Friday at 5 PM, Cimafunk on Saturday at 5 PM, The Chainsmokers close it out Sunday. Live match broadcasts, two stages, 20 local food vendors. Free GA with advance registration — passes required, capacity limits apply. Sunday, June 21, is Dog Days — bring your dog. Purina pet kits on-site while supplies last. Register for a Dog Days pass separately from your GA pass.
→ KC2026 Fan Festival — WWI Museum & Memorial lawn
Café Corazón Watch Parties · Thu–Sun / 7 PM nightly
The Crossroads location is running the full Verano de Fútbol watch party series through July 11 — big screen, sound on, drink specials, fútbol energy all the way through the knockout rounds. This weekend's featured match: Ecuador vs. Curaçao on Saturday June 20 at 7 PM. Free entry, open to all. Rep your team.
→ Café Corazón Crossroads — 110 Southwest Blvd
Crossroads Night Market · Fri 5–11 PM · Sat–Sun 12–11 PM
Weekend 2 of five. Same footprint — 18th Street from Wyandotte to Cherry, Baltimore Street, Art Alley, and the MADE MOBB lot on SW Blvd. 200+ artists, live music, culinary pop-ups, galleries open late. Free. No fences, no wristbands.
→ Crossroads Arts District
🎶 The Weekend
Juneteenth Heritage Festival · Fri June 19 – Sat June 20
The 15th annual celebration in the 18th & Vine Historic District — KC's official Juneteenth event. Cultural parade, live performances, community workshops, vendors, and a full two days of programming honoring the history and leadership of the Black Kansas City community. Free and open to all. VIP tickets available.
→ JuneteenthKC — 18th & Vine District
Absinthe Café at Lifted Spirits Distillery · Thu–Sun / Varies
Lifted Spirits makes KC's only locally distilled absinthe — Absinthe Verte, built from grand wormwood, fennel, anise, spearmint, and chamomile. The traditional louche service is the move: ice-cold water dripped through a sugar cube, slow, over a glass of the green. It turns cloudy. That's the point. Available nightly alongside their full cocktail menu and seasonal signatures. No special event required. Just show up.
→ Lifted Spirits Distillery — 1734 Cherry St, Crossroads · Thu–Fri 5 PM–11 PM · Sat 2 PM–1 AM · Sun 2–8 PM
Ari Staggs Trio at The Majestic Jazz Club · Friday / 6–10 PM
Downstairs Jazz Club. Matt Villinger holds the upstairs room 6–9:30 PM simultaneously — two rooms, one building, your pick.
→ The Majestic — 931 Broadway
Talya and Her Boyfriends at The Phoenix · Friday / 4:30–8:30 PM
Early evening at The Phoenix. Marlin Cortez holds the room through 1 AM.
→ The Phoenix — 8th & Central
Vye Lounge R&B Jams & Vinyl · Friday June 19
R&B and vinyl at Vye Lounge.
→ Vye Lounge
Ass Jamz at Nighthawk · Saturday June 20
Throwing booty. ALL. NIGHT. DANCE PARTY.
→ Nighthawk KC
Bram Wijnands at KC Bier Company · Sat–Sun / 3–5 PM
Afternoon jazz both days. Easy, low-commitment, genuinely good.
→ KC Bier Company — 310 W 79th St
🥂 Date Nights
Jackie Myers Duo at Chaz · Thursday / 6–10 PM
Chaz holds its Thursday slot — vocal jazz on the Plaza in a room that doesn't need a weekend to justify the visit.
→ Chaz at the Raphael
Max Levy at P.S. Speakeasy · Thursday / 7:30 PM
Saxophonist at the Hotel Phillips speakeasy. A spot worth knowing. Low-lit, downtown, no cover.→ P.S. Speakeasy, Hotel Phillips — 106 W 12th St
Kevin "Church" Johnson at VOO Lounge · Thursday / 8–11:30 PM
Late-night Thursday at the Voo. Good for those who want to keep going after dinner. → VOO Lounge — 1214 Baltimore
Absinthe Café at Lifted Spirits · Fri June 19 – Sun June 21
Two people, one absinthe fountain, a slow pour. The traditional louche service at Lifted Spirits is the kind of date night that doesn't need a reservation or a plan — just the willingness to sit still and watch a drink turn cloudy. The full cocktail menu runs alongside it if absinthe isn't your thing, but it should be your thing.
→ Lifted Spirits Distillery — 1734 Cherry St
👨👩👧👦 Family Friendly & Father's Day
Juneteenth Heritage Festival · Fri–Sat / 18th & Vine
The full festival is family-welcoming — cultural parade, community workshops, family resource events, live performances. A meaningful way to spend the weekend with kids.
→ JuneteenthKC
Americana 250 at Worlds of Fun · Thu June 18–July 25
Worlds of Fun's summer-long patriotic celebration — rides, live entertainment, themed food, and fireworks on select evenings. A full-day family outing running through the holiday weekend.
→ Worlds of Fun
Chicken Fried Sundays at Beer Kitchen · Sunday
Father's Day weekend t Beer Kitchen — southern comfort food, craft beer, and a laid-back Sunday format that works for dads who'd rather eat than be fussed over.
→ Beer Kitchen
Sunday Brunch at Iron Horse Grill · Sunday
Father's Day brunch. This Dad approves!!
→ Iron Horse Grill
Last Call 🍸
Clover Club & Margarita @Club Cleo
The Clover Club cocktail was named after a gentlemen's club in Philadelphia. The year was 1882. The members were lawyers, writers, industrialists — men who wore their opinions loudly and considered their drink order a form of autobiography.
The drink itself: gin, lemon, raspberry, dry vermouth, egg white. Shaken twice — once dry to build the foam, once with ice to chill it. Pink in the glass, frothy on top, tart underneath. Elegant in a way that made people uncomfortable once elegance fell out of fashion. By the 1930s, Esquire had listed it as one of the ten worst cocktails in existence. It took about seventy years for the craft cocktail renaissance to prove them wrong.
Cleo Club on Grand Boulevard, ladies & gentlemen. They're using Scapegrace — a New Zealand gin, more floral and botanical than the classic London dry the original recipe called for. The egg white forms a foam that sits atop the glass like a diva.
Cleo Club is upstairs from The Rockhill Grille — gold jungle-cat door handle, red awning, velvet booths, forest-green walls — our last stop of the night.
The Margarita is also on the menu and worth the order as a counterpoint. Corazón Blanco, house sour, Combier, and shaved ice — the shaved ice is the choice. It dilutes slower than a cube and integrates into the drink as it melts.
Two drinks. One room.
—Proost! 🍸